Felix takes Best of Breed at SBTCA National 2025

A Life Worth Participating In

On involvement, contribution, and choosing where to spend our energy.

I’ve always found that life is more rewarding when we’re actively involved in the things we care about. For me, much of that involvement has centered on the Staffordshire Bull Terrier and the wonderful community of people who share a love for this breed.

Over more than two decades, our participation has taken many forms: club membership and leadership, rescue support, fundraising, educational projects, publications, events, and countless hours of volunteer work. Some efforts have been ambitious, others quite small, and not everything has unfolded as we hoped. But I’ve enjoyed the process of creating, contributing, and learning along the way.

One of the things I’ve come to appreciate is how differently people choose to participate. Some are happiest breeding and exhibiting their dogs, others enjoy performance sports, rescue, research, education, or the friendships that come with club involvement. There is room for all of those interests, and each brings something worthwhile to our community.

Of course, whenever people are passionate about something, there will be differences of opinion. I’ve had my share of disagreements, misunderstandings, and experiences that taught me to be more thoughtful about where I invest my time. I’ve also learned that not every opinion requires a response, and not every disagreement needs to become a defining part of the relationship.

These days, I find myself more interested in what we can accomplish than in what might distract us. There are still projects I want to complete, things I hope to learn, people I’d like to encourage, and opportunities to contribute in ways that might be useful long after my own involvement has ended.

I don’t think participation needs to be measured by how much anyone accomplishes or how visible their contributions become. Sometimes the most meaningful gestures are the quiet ones: offering help, sharing experience, welcoming someone new, or simply showing up when another person needs an extra pair of hands.

What matters to me is having the opportunity to take part in something I love and knowing that, in whatever small ways I can, I’ve helped it along.

There’s a great deal of satisfaction in spending our energy creating something worthwhile rather than worrying about how others might receive it.

And I intend to keep participating for as long as I can.

Always toward the light.

Filed under Mentoring Sportsmanship